Dating mature men by appointment, but would like to do a Video Verification, and get to know eachother. I prefer you come to me. 10:13 AM

Hello there everyone, I have been a Secretary for 20 years, but in order to make ends meet I worked at the gentlemens club on West Ln for about 17 years as my home club. Within that time, I was able to complete my A.A.S. in Criminal Justice in 2012. However, my second oldest brother has taken over, and is now the District Manager at the two locations Stockton, and Sacramento, which has brought me here. In 2018, I completed my Caregiver Certificate at the V.A. in French Camp, and in 2020 I completed all the requirements to do Paralegal work for Attorneys in the area. I did a lot of volunteer work and free work in the beginning of my career. Most of the projects I have been hired for were for non-profit organizations. I had the pleasure of working with people on projects and assignments connected to the Children's Home, The Women's Home, and Fathers and Families. On my free time, Idrive for Uber and Lyft, while staying open to other assignments via other agencies which have landed me temporary jobs at Kaiser, City of Lodi, and otherjobs in the Legal/ Administrative Department. Everyone is asking me what are your rates Considering, the Panel does not have enough money in their budget to pay their Paralegals, I date, per my Lawyers advice. I do not like talking about money, but what I have learned “Its"if" someone wants to do something nice for you", is how it works. However, I am a little traditional for example: I like it when the person I am dating opens and closes doors. I like it when he takes my coat off for me, and places it on the chair I am going to sit on. I like it when they can take care of certain expenses. I plan to send 20% a month of what I make to my church/religion so that I can help someone else have a home, clean clothes, and food. My goals are to raise enough funds so that one day I may be able to spend time with my GodDaughter again, 2 Adopted Daughters, and Step daughter, Step son, and Grandchildren. I would also like to get a Brazilian butt lift one day, and purchase a small mobile home so that I can have my own little yard where my kids can visit me while I water my flowers. Would also like to let you know I LOVE making friendshere, so when there is time I would LOVE to get to know you by VIDEO for VERIFICATION for SAFETY purposes. Safety is the most important for me because Ihave two disabilities so please be mindful that no disrespect will be tolerated. If we move forward we may set up an appointment, and talk about it more. A few elements to take into consideration is I like getting to know people so if you do not mind I would like to ask questions for example: How oldare you Do you like taking showers What's your favorite color Do you like movies What kind of music do you listen to What do you do for a living I have been married and divorced twice, first marriage was for 15 years, and my second marriage was for 16 years, and this is my first time dating outside of my arrangements. I prefer dating someone who is single, but I am not judgingbecause I come from a religion that allows men to have more than one wife. I know there are exceptions to the rules for example, some couples are swingers, or date outside their marriage due to their own personal beliefs. Currently, I have an arrangement with someone through my Adopted Father, and he has been my "on and off" boyfriend since this past Valentine's Day. With that said, I am going to do as much right as possible. This is something I do on the side 1-3 days towards the end of the week. However, if you would like to schedule a date earlier in the week I am sure we can move some things around. I am available by appointment mornings, and day time. Thanks, Lani Anderson